Such a strange emotion. Jealously is a strange side effect from a fear of loss. You feel upset, nausea,and a strange sinking feeling in the pit of your stomach. You get goosebumps and waves of heat wash over your body. Your heart starts racing and your body is gearing up for a fight or a flight.
You more than likely feel anger,which in and of it's self isn't really an emotion per se, it is an expression of feeling frustration or out of control. Those feelings manifest into harsh words and blame. Not awesome.
Even the most zen of us feel jealousy at one point or the other, especially if your partner/partners in the past has/have a propensity for breaking the rules.
One thing to remember is, not every partner is your past partners. If you are diving into loving another person, you need to trust that they will not harm you. What if you feel you can't trust that person quite yet? Don't get into a serious relationship just yet. Date each other, date others... see where it goes.
If you find someone that you feel safe with, don't assume the worst. Chances are they feel fear in losing you too. Comfort each other and respect each other and your relationship will solidify into something amazing.
You more than likely feel anger,which in and of it's self isn't really an emotion per se, it is an expression of feeling frustration or out of control. Those feelings manifest into harsh words and blame. Not awesome.
Even the most zen of us feel jealousy at one point or the other, especially if your partner/partners in the past has/have a propensity for breaking the rules.
One thing to remember is, not every partner is your past partners. If you are diving into loving another person, you need to trust that they will not harm you. What if you feel you can't trust that person quite yet? Don't get into a serious relationship just yet. Date each other, date others... see where it goes.
If you find someone that you feel safe with, don't assume the worst. Chances are they feel fear in losing you too. Comfort each other and respect each other and your relationship will solidify into something amazing.
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